Cliquereads

Everyone’s fascinated with the idea of falling in love with someone. They say love takes you by surprise at the most unexpected time and for unpredictable reasons. Yeah, I've read Fairy Tales too. But If you ask me What advice I'd give to the person who's falling in love with me, In simple words, I'll just say "Run" Yeah, that's what my reply would be. Not because I'm not interested in that person, it's because I know how difficult it'd be to love me. It was easier before. But it's not simple anymore cause I'm broken inside. You'll never know how broken my soul is. It's really complicated to even explain my emotions. I just don't want anyone to fall in love with me cause I don't wanna see anyone suffering because of me. Deep down I don't really know whether some part of my soul still needs to be loved or not. I just need some time. Actually, I just figured out what I need in life right now. And for sure being in a...

Family is where life begins & Love never ends              Have you People ever wished to go back to the childhood days with your parents? I often have. Those were the happiest days of my life and I'll keep missing those days for a lifetime. Parents are the ones who love us without any expectations. Yeah right? I often wonder how their love can be so selfless. As kids, we totally depend on our parents and we'll never know the number of sacrifices they've done for us. They'll never let their pain affect us. They'll never even show us that they're in pain. They'll always protect us from evil. They keep us in all their prayers. And they'll never expect anything in the back. They just want us to Happy. That's all they need.               But growing up, we question everything they've taught us. We don't spend much time with them. We don't listen to them. Sometimes we blame them for nothing. We feel that we're not bein...

  ஒரு உண்மையான நெகிழ்ச்சி பதிவு, முகநூலில் இருந்து....  இருதினம் முன்பு பெரியப்பா கொரோனாவால் உயிரிழந்துவிட்டார் என்கிற செய்தி வந்தது. என் வாழ்வின் பெரும் விசையாக எனக்கிருந்தவர். ஸ்டான்லி மருத்துவமனைக்குச் சென்றேன். கறுப்பு நிற பிளாஸ்டிக் உறையில் அவரை ‘பேக்’ செய்து கொடுத்து, ‘வீட்டுக்குக் கொண்டு செல்லக் கூடாது. நேரடியாக சுடுகாட்டுக்குத்தான், ஆம்புலன்ஸ் கிடைக்கும் வரை சவக்கிடங்கில் வைத்திருப்போம்’ என்றார்கள். சவக்கிடங்கில் கறுப்பு நிற பிளாஸ்டிக் உறையில் கிடத்தப்பட்டிருந்த பிணங்களைப் பார்த்தபோது ஏற்பட்ட உயிர் பயம் எனக்கும் இன்னும் அகலவில்லை. ஒரு வாரமாக மருத்துவமனையிலேயே இருந்த என் அண்ணன் சொன்ன கதைகளைக் கேட்டபோது, ‘இங்கு வந்திருக்கத் தேவையில்லையோ, மூன்றாவதாக ஒரு மாஸ்க் கொண்டு வந்திருக்கலாமோ, Face shield என திவ்யா ஏதோ சொன்னதை மாட்டிக் கொண்டு வந்திருக்கலாமோ’ என்று குடும்பம் கண்முன் வந்து போனது. ஆனால், இங்கே யாருமில்லை எனில் ஓர் அநாதைப் பிணம்போல என் பெரியப்பா கிடந்திருப்பார். என்னை எப்படியெல்லாம் வளர்த்தார் என்பதை மேலும் பூதாகரப்படுத்திக்கொண்டு அங்கு நின்றிருந்தேன். புதுப்பேட்டை கோழி...

Getting up early in the morning; Getting shouted at by my mom; Doing the incomplete work; Getting a bath after a lot of screams; Running for the bus that never comes on time; That's how my day begins. When we so badly want a leave, nature will plot against us; No rains, no floods, no hurricanes, it will just give us a sarcastic breeze. I really needed a break for a while to pause the schedule and have fun with friends, but this time, the problem came in the shape of corona; the govt announced a holiday for schools and college for 2 weeks. That day, our life abruptly came to a stagnant point; my friends and the whole college were happy because we all got what we wanted, a break from the hectic schedule.  In the beginning, that was pretty cool, watching series and movies, trying all the youtube cook stuffs using social media(Like the Dalgona coffee trend), looking at lot of memes, and creating this blog too. After some days, they started online classes when we were quarantined and is...

Tell the truth, or at least, don't lie : Social trust is a difficult thing to achieve and can be quickly lost through an indiscretion or even a simple misunderstanding. Social trust is crucial and not just for well-functioning businesses but also for sustaining the forward progress of society and the happiness of the individuals within that society. The truth in this instance comes with a big tea. It's a conglomeration of personal truth of experiences the keeping of promises and contracts and the accurate description and understanding of reality. Here's a little example you might say that 70 degrees is warm and I might say that 70 degrees is cold in a sense we are both telling our own truths even if they're different the important part is to tell your own truth. Assume that the person you're listening to might know something that you don't : If what you hold to be true must be forced upon others? Is that true that you hold really that powerful?  A part of the tr...

Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else  is today : Assigning a value to something is entirely natural. In the more common use of the term value, people use it to measure themselves against the progress of other people. He makes more money, her children are smarter, they drive a better car this is utterly inherently self-destructive. This kind of beliefs will build resentment, anger and self-loathing. Not only for the other person either but for yourself. All of this diminishes your own sense of self your personal valuation and your feeling of autonomy. Therefore, you should strive to become a better person. Even if it's just a 1% better each week than you were before if you do this continually for 71 weeks you'll be twice the person that you were before. Don't let your children do anything that makes you dislike them : At first glance, this rule might sound a little strange. Suppose a child is treated in one of two ineffective parenting styles e...

I remember the first time you entered my classroom; I remember the first time you smiled at me for no reason; I remember your voice when you called me by my name for the first time and I remember how different it felt! I remember the first time you shook my hands asking "FRIENDS ?"  I remember that awkward smile I couldn't control every morning when I walk past you in the corridor; I remember how easily familiar your voice became after the first phone call. I remember how my own Fairy tale started with you. I remember the times when we'd stay on the phone all night till dawn; I remember how things went fast in between us (but I embraced every moment though); I remember how eventually I fell in love with you completely! I remember how you proposed me! ( That will always be my Favourite date). I remember the times when we shared all our secrets; I remember the first time we went out. I remember how we held our hands tight for the first time. I remember how you made joke...

There is chaos in the world it comes in a variety of shapes and sizes and individual and family levels as well as from within larger corporations and even higher cosmic levels. "But why is it so pervasive?" Well because it's the natural state of everything. Entropy is another more scientific-sounding word for the degrading force of chaos which seeks to ruin anything and everything now. It requires effort and energy to set things right again to put them back in order it is a forceful and rightful application of this effort and energy that will help keep chaos at bay in our own personal lives. It'll help us live peaceful lives of purpose and meaning and make our institutions more aligned to their duty Dr Jordan Peterson lays out 12 rules to help turn this chaos into order and the rest of this blog is based on Jordan Peterson's book the 12 rules for life which seemed to be a great list of cliches to live a "Happy Meaningful and Successful life".  Stand up...

It's Okay to not be Okay! Yeah, you're not the only one drowning in sorrow here. Everyone around you has their own issues. Some have health issues, someone have rough day in work & some will go through relationship issues. Sometimes an unexpected challenge might come your way and you find yourself stressing out, worrying & not knowing what to do. And somedays you feel pessimistic; you'll feel like you're left out all alone & you've no-one by your side to support. All of a sudden, you get paralyzed with self-doubt. When you are just waiting, waiting to go home, waiting to go into your room. Where you want to close the door, want to fall into your bed and just want to let everything out that you kept all day inside your heart. That feeling when you feel, nothing is wrong but nothing is right either. And you are tired, tired of everything, tired of nothing... And just want someone to be there, who can tell you, it's okay, it happens.  But on the other h...