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What advice would I give to the person who's falling in love with me?

Everyone’s fascinated with the idea of falling in love with someone. They say love takes you by surprise at the most unexpected time and for unpredictable reasons. Yeah, I've read Fairy Tales too.

But If you ask me What advice I'd give to the person who's falling in love with me,

In simple words, I'll just say "Run"


Yeah, that's what my reply would be. Not because I'm not interested in that person, it's because I know how difficult it'd be to love me. It was easier before. But it's not simple anymore cause I'm broken inside. You'll never know how broken my soul is. It's really complicated to even explain my emotions. I just don't want anyone to fall in love with me cause I don't wanna see anyone suffering because of me. Deep down I don't really know whether some part of my soul still needs to be loved or not. I just need some time. Actually, I just figured out what I need in life right now. And for sure being in a relationship is not on the list. I just want to enjoy the morning rays of sunlight alone. I wanna feel the warmth and comfort it gives me. I wanna smile back at the wind that blows through my ears. I want to kiss back the raindrops falling. I wanna cook my favourite food and chill out. I totally need some "Me time" right now. I'm busy calming myself saying that I'm Okay. Let me try to heal myself. Yeah, it'll take years I know. It's just I'm definitely not ready, not yet. I know love will find its way to me when I'm ready. But for now, I've to work on myself. I just wanna set goals and keep going.

So yeah, To the person: You better run away faster 😂

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